Divorce Mediation & Alternative Dispute Resolution Attorneys in NY & NJ

Mediation and Collaborative Divorce Solutions

Not every divorce needs to end in a courtroom battle. At Larkin Farrell, we help couples in New York and New Jersey reach fair, legally sound resolutions through divorce mediation and collaborative processes—saving time, reducing conflict, and minimizing legal costs.



If you and your spouse are willing to work together but still need legal guidance, this approach offers a structured, less combative way forward.

Divorce Mediation

Mediation involves a neutral third party (often an attorney) guiding both spouses through the negotiation process. We help clients:


  • Reach mutual agreement on property, custody, and support
  • Avoid litigation delays and expense
  • Create enforceable settlement agreements
  • Stay in control of outcomes rather than handing decisions to a judge


Mediation can be especially beneficial for parents or couples with long-term shared financial interests.

Collaborative Divorce

This team-based approach allows both parties to retain their own attorneys while working toward resolution through a series of non-litigation meetings. We guide clients through:


  • Joint planning sessions
  • Open document exchange
  • Creative problem-solving for complex assets or custody schedules
  • Signing legally binding agreements without ever going to court


Collaborative divorce can be a faster, less emotionally taxing alternative—especially in cases involving children or shared businesses.

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Key Considerations for Mediation & ADR

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Mediation Keeps You in Control

Unlike litigation, mediation empowers you and your spouse to make decisions—rather than leaving them to a judge.

It's Cost-Effective and Confidential

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Mediation and collaborative divorce are generally less expensive, faster, and fully private compared to courtroom battles.

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It Still Requires Legal Oversight

Even if you're working together, you need legal guidance to ensure your agreement is valid, enforceable, and in your best interest.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • What’s the difference between mediation and collaborative divorce?

    Mediation uses a neutral third party. Collaborative divorce involves two attorneys and a team-based, non-adversarial process. Both aim for settlement without court.

  • Is mediation only for amicable couples?

    Not at all. Mediation works even when there’s tension—as long as both parties are willing to negotiate and participate in good faith.

  • Can I use mediation if we have children or significant assets?

    Yes. In fact, it often works best for families with shared parenting goals or complex finances that require thoughtful planning.

  • What if we can’t reach an agreement?

    If mediation fails, you can still move to litigation. We’ll already be familiar with your goals and can pivot to a courtroom strategy if needed.

  • Do I still need my own lawyer in mediation?

    Absolutely. Even if you're cooperating, you need independent legal advice to ensure your rights are fully protected throughout the process.

Divorce Doesn’t Have to Be a Battle

With the right guidance, divorce can be resolved with dignity, respect, and clarity. Whether through mediation or collaborative process, we help you protect what matters most—without unnecessary conflict.

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